Uncertainity

Life has a sense of uncertainty in all of it's aspects. Some have their life planned out and believe/think that they have it all together. Which it is unfortunate for them because they have NO CONTROL of it. It makes me sad to think that believe that. I'm not saying that you can't hope, wish, and dream. In which you can do all of those things. But there is a time in your life when we need to face reality. Which is hard, cold, and real. This sounds very point blank....but it is.

Life is MESSY, HURTFUL, LONELY, and very UNCERTAIN.

Life is MESSY...twisted minds, messed up families, and weird circumstances. This is mind blowing that life can be messy, there is not a right from wrong in this moment and even if there is a right from wrong, you don't even know the difference. You are sitting there wondering how you reached this point when you no longer have control of your life. It unravels and you feel as if you have to let it go. If you don't, then what are you really holding onto?

Life is HURTFUL...physical, emotional, and mental pain. These things can prolong pain for a lifetime and dampen the ability to live. Many encounter this feeling and it ultimately controls every move of there life.

Life is LONELY...it is full of depression, breakups, and hopeless romantics. There is plenty of this in this world, and I have experienced it first hand.

Life is UNCERTAIN...life, death, and love. All three are very important to us. Life, when will it begin and end? How long will I have with my love ones? Will I spend my time wisely? And what about love? Will we ever find this longing affection that every individual desires? And if we can obtain this love, how long will it last?? The uncertainty of these questions linger over heads of many people.

But in the face of all of these obstacles in life...there is some light. Probably for a minute or so some were thinking how could I be so negative and gloomy. Well there is a flip side to this coin that is not all the time seen or shown. This side is not seen because we don't have the vision to see it ourselves. Let me explain myself. When we feel messy, hurtful, lonely, and uncertain; we become vulnerable. We tend not to see the light or any goodness. We end up in a gloom or a fix we can't seem to get out of.

So here is the flip side to this coin.

Life is sometimes MESSY...but it can be turned into something extraordinary. Instead of twisted minds and messed families, that are broken they can be mended. This of course does not happen over night. But with a little bit of love, it can go far. And others begin to see what you are doing and latch on to it. And before you know it, a lot of goodness will overcome the world.

Life is sometimes HURTFUL...our pain is deep. We feel more than any other mammal on this planet. When we cry, laugh, or ache we do it fully. We feel nothing halfway. Our emotional pain and mental pain can be mended. Yes, of course it is not going to happen within moments. But it will get better, have faith that it will.

Life is LONELY...depression is hard there is no denying that. It can take you into a whole new different world. But with the trusting of God and especially others you can get through it. Breakups are one of the hardest things to go through. So love the person you are with and enjoy there company. If they let you go know that there is a reason and something better is going to come around the corner! Girls (or maybe some guys) don't be a hopeless romantic. You are a strong individual and can survive by yourself. Don't settle for just anyone. Choose or let someone choose you. Make sure you both are in it for the right reasons and you can't go wrong with that.

Life is UNCERTAIN...the main word of the day. Life is unpredictable, knowing when it will begin and end. Now regarding death, we must spend as much time as we can with those we love. Whether they drive you crazy or if you could be around them all the time. Enjoy every minute that you possibly can, because you never know when your last day is. And make sure you say "I love you" every chance you get.

Now there is two sides of the coin and they both have been laid out in front of us. We now have to take this information and see both sides. The side which we all tend to stay on because it is easier, which is the negative side. When there is light on the other side, that we just have to get to.

With all of this there is a part of the "equation", that I did not speak of. The end of this equation is God. He is the center focus of all. He will lead, guide, and follow us. Through the darkest of times, when it seems no one else is there, he is. He is the rock we stand on. And ultimately he will save and love us until the end.

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